God bless Gisele

I won’t delve into the details of Giselle Pelicot’s trial. If you’re unfamiliar, a simple search will reveal the shocking truths—but be prepared, it’s a story that lays bare horrors most of us can scarcely imagine. My purpose in writing isn’t to amplify those details, but rather to reflect on the extraordinary courage of one woman and the profound ripple effect of her actions. We have no shortage of evidence in the world to affirm that there is bad. I’m sharing Gisele’s story as a much-needed reminder that there is also profound good.

Giselle made a choice that most, understandably, couldn’t when faced with such profound trauma. She refused the anonymity she was entitled to and stood up for unseen victims, using her harrowing story as a catalyst for desperately needed change. By taking this stand, Giselle dismantled the stigma that so often silences survivors, forcing society to confront uncomfortable truths and transforming the narrative for victims everywhere.

In what some might call woo-woo terms, she quantum leaped the shift of shame. We need not carry the shame of what other people choose to do to us. Her bravery wasn’t just about seeking justice for herself—it sparked a collective shift, empowering others to shed their shame and reclaim their power.

Her press statement after the verdict moved me to tears. It wasn’t long, and the words weren’t adorned with poetic complexity. Its power lay in its simplicity:

“I wanted all of society to be witness to the debates that took place here. I never regretted making this decision. I have trust in our capacity to collectively project ourselves towards a future where all women and men can live in harmony with respect and mutual understanding.”

This moment could have been hers to demand attention for her suffering. She could have poured her pain into anger and condemnation—justifiably so. Instead, she chose to speak of harmony and inclusivity, opening the door to a more profound societal shift.

At 72 years old, this woman from France has reshaped the conversation around victimhood, dignity, and healing. She reminds us of the quiet yet extraordinary power everyday people possess to change the world.

We are witnessing history in real time and I want to take a moment in gratitude for what could quickly move through the news cycle (and sadly in the US might not be seen at all while we have other priorities of what is deemed newsworthy.)

Thank you, Gisele, for fighting so that my children can grow up in a world where darkness is no longer allowed to hide in the shadows.

Love you all!

Victoria